Do you ever use kink as a means of performing femininity? As a gender fluid human exploring femininity in the context of kink, it has been powerful and grounding. The male gaze penetrates my every pore. As I walk down the street, I wish their unwanted stares were perceived as assault and not flattery, I wish men understood their incredibly blatant, dead-eyed adventures of my body makes Me want to swiftly blind them.